Yesterday our little college community found out we had suffered another loss. A student, close to graduation has died. His parents will now move through this holiday season without their child.
Several people I know are recently separated or divorced after decades of being married. The families are moving through this holiday season trying to figure out a new definition of “family” and looking for peace and blessings to fill the spaces left by these changes.
On Facebook I heard of a friend of a friend whose 5 year old son is dying from an incurable disease. The family is hoping to have one more Christmas with their precious boy.
And just like that my week long cold/coughing spell seems utterly inconsequential. A minor inconvenience. If ever there were a time of year to remember our blessings, to grab those we hold dear, who are the joy and heart of our lives, and tell them we love them, it is RIGHT.NOW.
To my mother, father, brother and his family, to Bob, Cooper and all my friends, thank you for being in my life and I love you all.